I-Pet Bird Ukufa: Indlela Yokubhekana Nayo
Ingxenye engakhululekile kodwa engenakugwemeka yobunikazi bezilwane - ngesikhatsi esithile, kungenzeka ukuthi isilwane sakho sizofa, futhi kuzodingeka usho okuhle kumngane wakho owake wachitha isikhathi esiningi naye. Abantu abahlukene banezindlela ezahlukene zokubhekana nokudabuka nokulahlekelwa, kodwa kukhona izinto eziningi ongazenza ukuze kube lula ukubhekana nazo. Funda ukuze uthole ezinye izindlela eziningi abanikazi bezilwane emhlabeni wonke abaye bafunda ukubhekana nokufa kwezilwane zabo abathandekayo.
Ngethemba ukuthi uzokwazi ukududuzeka kwezinye imibono ozothola ngayo ngesikhathi sokulahlekelwa kwakho.
- Unomngcwabo ngenyoni yakho. Abanye abantu bangase bathi ukungcwaba isilwane kungenasidingo noma kungadingekile, kodwa iqiniso ukuthi abanikazi bezilwane eziningi bathola induduzo yokuba nomngcwabo wezilwane ezilahlekile, ikakhulukazi labo abanemindeni enezingane ezincane. Khetha indawo efanelekile yokungcwaba inyoni yakho bese umema abangane nabomndeni oseduze, noma nithathe isikhathi sokukhumbula ngesikhashana umngane wakho wezinyosi wena ngokwakho. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukuphendula imithandazo ethile noma izinkondlo, noma ukudlala umculo owakhumbuza izilwane ezifuywayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqhuba kanjani umngcwabo wezinyoni zakho, okuyingxenye ebalulekile ukuthi kukunika ukuvalwa kanye nethuba lokusho ngokuhlelekile.
- Dala iwebhusayithi yekhumbuzo. Izikhumbuzo ze-inthanethi ziye zathola ukuthandwa eminyakeni yamuva nje kokubili izilwane ezifuywayo kanye nabantu. Akukona kuphela ukwakha isikhumbuzo se-intanethi kukunika isikhathi sokuzindla ngezinkumbulo ezijabulisayo ozenzile ngesilwane sakho, sizokunikeza indawo engapheli ongayenza ukuze ubuyekeze lezo zinkumbulo noma kunini lapho ufisa khona emva kwalokho. Abantu abaningi bakhetha ukwakha izikhumbuzo ze-intanethi ezigcwele izithombe namavidiyo wezilwane ezifuywayo ezihambayo, bese wabelana ngesixhumanisi nabangani nomndeni ukuze nabo bakhumbule impilo eyigugu elahlekile futhi banikezele induduzo. Kukhona ngisho namawebhusayithi amaningi okukhumbuza okuzokuvumela ukuthi udale ikhasi lesilwane sakho ngaphandle kokukhokha.
- Susa izinto ezikukhumbuza ngesilwane sakho. Ezinsukwini ngokushesha ngemuva kokulahlekelwa isilwane, abantu abaningi bakuthola kunzima kakhulu ukubhekana nokubona izinto ezijwayele ukuwakhumbuza ngokulahlekelwa kwabo. Endabeni yezinyoni ezifuywayo, ungathola kuyasiza ukususa isikhala sakhe, amathoyizi nezinye izinto ezivela ezindaweni zazo ezijwayelekile futhi uzigcine ungaboni kuze kube yilapho uzizwa ungcono, noma ngisho uzinikele endaweni yokukhosela noma inyoni khulula. Kunzima ngokwanele ukufika ezinsukwini ezilandelayo ukulahlekelwa yinyoni yesilwane ngaphandle kokuzwa amazwi abo amnandi, kungabi yedwa ukubheka ikhala elingenalutho. Zibuze ukuthi uma ukukhipha impahla yezinyoni zakho kuzokusiza ukuba ubhekane nokulahlekelwa, futhi uma kuthanda, yenza njalo noma ubuze umngane noma ilunga lomndeni ukuba eze usizo alinakekele lona.
- Yenza intela yokudala. Abantu abaningi ababhekana nokulahlekelwa bakuthola kududuza ukwenza intela yokudala ngokukhumbula isilwane sabo. Ungumlobi, umdwebi noma umculi? Zama ukubhala inkondlo, ukudweba isithombe, noma ukuhlanganisa ingoma ngenkumbulo yomngane wakho othandekayo onamahloni. Kuye kwathiwa ukuthi ukudala ubuciko kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo kuyindlela enhle yokuveza imizwa yangaphakathi ehilela lezi zinhlobo zezimo ezibuhlungu. Ukwenza intela efanele esifundeni sakho kungakusiza ukuvala ukuthi udinga ukuze ukwazi ukuqhubeka.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha kanjani ukukhumbula isilwane sakho, khumbula ukuthi kuvamile futhi kulungile ukuzwa imizwa yesosikhathi isikhathi esithile. Kungathatha izinyanga ukuthi abanye abantu basebenze ngenqubo yokulila, futhi iqiniso liwukuthi, ingxenye yezinhlungu ngeke neze ihambe. Ekugcineni kuyoba lula ukubhekana nayo, kanti ngolunye usuku uzokwazi ukubukela emuva ezinkumbulo zenyoni yakho yezilwane ngaphandle kokuzwa ukhululekile kakhulu ukudabuka. Uma usufinyelele lelo phuzu, ungase ucabange ukwemukela inyoni entsha yezilwane ukuhlanganyela impilo yakho nayo.