Indlela Yokuqonda Okuthandwa NguKhosi Yakho
Ukukhuluma ngekati kanye nelulwimi lwekhathi ngezinye izikhathi kuyasibuza. Amakati athathwa njengamakhulu eminyaka njengezilwane ezingacacile, ezizimele, ezingenakulinganiswa ngoba asikwazi ukuqonda lokho abakushoyo. Kodwa abanikazi bekhanda be-savvy bangakwazi ukuhlukanisa ulimi lwekati. Ngenkathi abantu bethembele ekukhulumeni ukukhulumisana, amakati akhuluma ngokuthula. Amakati akhuluma ngokusebenzisa izinhlanganisela eziyinkimbinkimbi zolimi lwezandla, ukumemezela, nokukhala okumnandi. Funda ukuthi ungabona kanjani izisekelo eziyisisekelo zezinkathi, bese uthola inhlanganisela evamile kakhulu, ukuqonda ukuthi ikati lakho lisho ngani, nakwezinye izinwele.
Ngokuzijwayeza, maduzane uzoba uchwepheshe olimini lwekati, kangangokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uphinde uphendule!
01 ngo-07
Ama-Meows, ama-Purrs nokuningi
U-Andrei Spirache / Ukhetho Lwezithombe RF / Getty Images Ukusetshenziswa kwamagama kagesi ukuveza umzwelo. Ukumisa , ukuhlunga , ukuphendula, ukuvuthwa nokuningi kufakwe emlandweni we-feline, ngayinye enezincazelo ezikhethekile kuye ngokuthi isimo saso siyini. Ngenkathi amakati amadala ngokuvamile engadli omunye komunye, amakati afuywayo akwazi ukufundela abantu. Esosayensi othile ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi amakati abona abanikazi bawo njengamazinyane ngoba ngokuvamile nje amakati omama namakhiti abo axhumana ngokugudla.
02 ngo-07
Ukukhuluma kwendlebeNaka izindlebe zekati lakho. Fred Bchx / Flickr Amakati abuye aveze imizwelo ngezindlebe, kanye nenhloso. Ngokuvamile, lapho izindlebe zekati zihamba phambili ngaphesheya nangemva, ukuvusa noma ukucindezeleka kakhudlwana. Izindlebe ezibuyela emuva kanye ne-hers noma swayipha kukhona uphawu oluqinisekisayo ukuthi ikati lakho lizwa lisongelwa noma alithandi lokho okwenzayo.
03 ka-07
I-Eye TalkAmehlo akho cat athi okuningi kunalokho ucabanga. UCaroline Granycome / Flickr Amakati axhumana namajwabu amehlo-ukuthi avulekile kanjani noma avaliwe-kanye nokuhlanjululwa kwesigaba somnyama (iris). Ukususwa ngokungazelelwe (ukukhulisa) kwe-iris kubangelwa ukuvusa okungazelelwe okungenzeka kube ngenxa yokwesaba, inzalo noma yimuphi omunye umzwelo oqinile.
04 ka 07
Ukukhuluma komsilaAmakati angabonisa indlela abazwa ngayo ngokunyakaza komsila wabo. Barbara Wells / Flickr Umsila wekati ubonisa isithakazelo, uthando , ukuvuka nokuningi. Ukuphakama komsila, kanye nokunyakaza, kunencazelo. Umsila ovuthayo noma ovuthayo ngokuvamile uyisignali yokugcina ibanga lakho. Umsila owehla futhi ungase ube uphawu lokudlala.
05 ka-07
I-Fur Talk
Ubomvu bamathambo buvuswa uma besaba noma becindezelekile. Tim Graham / Getty Izithombe Uboya obunempilo obuhle, obumnene besikhumba buhlala kahle ngokumelene nomzimba. I-Cat yizilwane zokuzihlanza ezisho ukuthi isimo soboya bazo singakutshela okuningi ngempilo yesilwane. Uboya obunqunu bungabonisa impilo ephikisayo, futhi akufanele kunganakwa, ikakhulukazi uma kuhambisane nezinye izimpawu, njengokungathi zibuhlungu noma zihlanza. Kodwa ijazi elikhukhumele ngokungazelelwe, elifaka umsila othi "ibhulashi", libonisa ukwesaba noma ukuhlukunyezwa. Kungcono ukubuyela emuva ekati elibonisa lolu hlobo lokuphendula okufuthekayo.
06 ka-07
Hlonipha noHlakaAmakati athatha indawo yawo futhi axoxe ngokusebenzisa iphunga. Enrico / Flickr Asikwazi ukubona noma ukuhumusha ngaso sonke isikhathi iphunga lamakhompi asetshenziselwa ukuxhumana. Kodwa-ke, phakathi kwamathuluzi aphunga, amakati asebenzisa umchamo oqinile we-urine kanye namazinyo, ukubopha umzimba (bunting), nokuhlunga ukushiya imilayezo emihle ye-Post-It enye amanye amakati afundwayo. Amakati awubugovu mayelana nensimu yawo, futhi amahlaya abashiya ngemuva ngokucacile aklanyelwe ukuthumela umlayezo wokuthi "le nsimu i-MINE" ukuze babe abaxhumanisi.
Umphunga wephunga wamakati unamandla kakhulu kangangokuthi ngisho nezinsana ezincane kakhulu zisebenzisa iphunga ngaphambi kokuba zibone ngokucacile.07 ka-07
Ukukhuluma komzimbaUkuhamba kwenkathi kukhuluma okuningi. KucatshangweSerendipity / Flickr Ukuhamba komzimba wonke wekathi kubonisa konke kusuka ekuzithembeni ukwesaba noma ukuhambisa. Ukuze uzwisise umlayezo ogcwele, inkulumo yomzimba kufanele ifundwe ngokubambisana nalokho okushiwo amehlo, izindlebe, umsila, uboya, nokuvunywa.
Ikati elikulesi sithombe ibonakala likhululekile futhi lijabule nentombazane yakhe engumngani osemncane. Ngiyakwazi ukutshela ngakho ngenxa yezinkomba ezibukwayo: Izindlebe zakhe zikhomba kancane phambili, amehlo akhe akhululekile, kanti nezethube nazo zikhomba phambili. Uma ulalela kangcono ikati lakho kuyoba lula ukulifunda ulimi lomzimba futhi ufunde ukuthi bazama ukukutshela.