Indlela Yokuhlonipha Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwendlovukazi Yendlovukazi
Umbuzo: "Singawuncoma Kanjani Umama-Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwenkathi?"
UDan noSara bakhathazekile ngoMohy Miss, inkathi ehlukumezayo "eyabamukela". U-Missy wahlala wangaphandle kwamasonto amathathu ngaphambi kokuba amlethe ngaphakathi kwesonto ngaphambi kokuba azalwe. U-Missy wathola ibhilidi ehlanzekile yezempilo ku-vet. U-Missy uneminyakakazi eneminyaka engama-20 ubudala (enezihluthulelo zakhe) oye wahola (obenamakhitshi amahlanu) ngo-Agasti 13. Missy wabelane ngendlu noPeter noSassy, amakati amadadewabo eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, omabili abangenawo ngaphandle namacwecwe angaphambili .
Amakati atholakala ebhokisini elilodwa lokubhula, egumbini lokuphumula, nokudla ekhishini nombhede womama-cat kanye namakhitshi eduze kwekhishi.
"U-Missy wayenomdlandla ngisho nangaphambi kokuba aqede," kusho uDan. "Amantombazane alwela u-alpha. U-Missy uyawaxosha phezulu kakhulu isikhathi." "U-Missy uvikela kakhulu izingane, uyisitja sokuqala esivumelayo endlini yami." Ngaphambi kokuqothula, wayezobhekana noSassy. Wayekhokhisa ekuseni, ngalobo busuku uPitrus wasondela kakhulu embhedeni futhi wamxosha phezulu Uphikisana naye, kusukela ngaleso sikhathi uzibophezele phezulu, ngithuthele amanzi kanye nokudla endaweni ephezulu ukuze abe nokunye. Ibhokisi lensimbi lisezinyaweni zezitebhisi ngakho-ke kuhamba phambili. Kusukela ekuseni ekuseni, u-Missy wayefika phezulu ukuze alwe. Sinike uMosey ukudla kwakhe kanye namanzi. Uma ehlukumezeka sidlulisela emuva emathangeni akhe kanye nesidlo sakhe sokudla.
Lona ekuseni lapho efika phezulu futhi ngimemeza ngaye futhi ngimbuyisela emuva ezitebhisini. Lapho exoshwa uSassy phezulu izitebhisi futhi ebusweni, ngahlangana no-Missy futhi ngamtshela ukuthi abuyele phansi phansi. Ngiyazi ukuthi sibabeka esimweni esinzima ngesikhatsi esincane phakathi kokusungulwa nokuqokwa.
Ukukhathazeka kwami yilapho abantwana beqala ukuphuma ebhokisini ukuhlola. Ingabe ikhona indlela yokwenza ukuba ahlale ezolile ezungeze amakati amadala? "
Impendulo ka-Amy
Amakati agqugquzela izizathu eziningi, kusukela ezempilo ezihlobene nemvelo. Ungasebenzisa i- HISS Test ukuthola ukuthi kungani Missy enza ngale ndlela. Lokho kusho impilo, ukuhlakanipha, ukucindezeleka, kanye nezixazululo zesifo. Kunezimbangela eziningi zokuhlukumezeka. Kusukela kulokho okuchazayo, noma kunjalo, le mbangela / umphumela uhamba phambili ngokuqondile.
H = Impilo
Ukukhathazeka kwezempilo okunjengezinhlungu ngokuvamile kungenziwa kuhlotshaniswa nobudlova. Kodwa ama-hormone omama nawo aphakamisa i-ante ukuze amakati omama azizwe nje evikelekile kakhulu futhi athuthukise izinwele zezinwele.
I = Ukuzibandakanya
Amakati ayenzeka ngokuvumelana nalokho engikubiza ngokuthi ingozi engaziwa noma nini lapho behlangana nento noma umuntu ongajwayelekile. Noma yiliphi ikati elisha eliza ensimini yendawo yokuhlala lizozizwa livikelekile, futhi izethulo zingasiza ukushelela ushintsho. Kodwa amakati omama nawo azizwa evikeleka udoti wabo, kanye nendawo ezungezile / insimu engase yande ukuze inikeze indawo ephephile yamakhitshi.
S = Ukucindezeleka
Izinkathi ezinhlanu. Ubuhlengikazi. Insimu entsha. Amakati we-Stranger. Kusho okwanele.
S = Izimpawu, Izimpawu Nezixazululo
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuthi uke wamukela lesi sikati somama ohluphekile futhi wamyisa ekuphepha kwendlu yakho.
Uma lezi zikhukhula zizalwe futhi zikhulelwe ngaphandle, kungenzeka ukuthi azizange ziphile futhi ziyobhekana nezinye izilwanyana ezihlasela kanye nama-parasites namagciwane. Kodwa-ke, ngoba nje angaphakathi manje ngeke ashintshe ukuziphatha okujwayelekile kuka-Missy.
Lokhu kungukuziphatha okuvamile okuyi-"cat cat". I-Feline imithetho yokuzivikela yokuvikela ukuvikela amantombazane uma lawo mahomoni ewatshela amakhondeni ayengozini. Lokhu kubuyela kumqondo wengozi "engozini" lapho kukhona okungajwayelekile okukhonjiswe yikati okungaba yingozi futhi ngakho-ke kuyisongo ezinganeni. Ngisho noma amakati ayengabangani ngaphambili, kungenzeka ukuthi u-Missy uzokwenza isilondolozi futhi azame ukugcina amanye amakati akude nezingane zakhe. Ezinye zazo zizophela uma izikhukhula zivuthiwe futhi zizimele ngokwengeziwe, kodwa ungasiza ngesikhathi esincane ngokunciphisa ukucindezeleka kuwo wonke amakati.
Nansi indlela.
Kuhle ukuthi unikeze isiteshi sesibili sokudla namanzi we-Missy. Kuyadabukisa ukuthi amakati amathathu kumele ahlanganyele ibhokisi elilodwa le-litter. Lokhu kucela amakati amaningi enobungane, futhi uma une-kitty engaziwa enomuntu onamahloni! -kuyisimo esingenakwenzeka kubo bonke abathintekayo. Eqinisweni, ngimangalisa ukuthi awuzange ube nokulwa kwe-ezandleni zakho.
Ngakho engeza elinye ibhokisi lezintala ze-Missy, eduze kombhede wakhe. Ngaleyo ndlela ngeke kudingeke ukuba aqhubekele kude nezinsana zokusebenzisa lezi zakhiwo, futhi angakugwema ukuxhumana namanye amaqabunga amenza ahlaziye. Ukwehlisa u-Missy's angst kuzokusiza nokunciphisa izinwele zezinwele, futhi uma ephindaphinda, uzokwazi ukucabanga nokufunda ukwamukela amanye amakati.
Ngesikhathi esifanele, kusukela wonke amakati azi lapho ekhona khona, elinye ibhokisi lensimbi lingahlala ngaphansi kwezinyathelo. Okufanelekile, ibhokisi lesithathu kufanele lihlelwe phezulu. Izindlu zangasese ezingaphezulu, kukhona amathuba amancane amakati azozwa isidingo sokuphikisana namalungelo omqaphi (uma ubamba ukuhamba kwami!).
Kungaba usizo ukufaka isango lomntwana ekhishini ukuze kuthi uma izikhukhula ziqala ukuhamba, zingagcinwa endaweni eyodwa. U-Missy cishe uzokwazi ukuhamba ngesango eliphansi, kodwa kuzokwenza ukuthi akhathazeke uma eyazi ukuthi izingane azikwazi ukuzulazula. Amanye amakati ngaleso sikhathi azokwazi "ikhishi" lingeManty futhi mhlawumbe aqhubeke ecacile.