Siza amaKhosi wakho afunde kahle
Uma unekati elingaphezu kweyodwa, ungase ujwayelane nokulwa kwekati, okubizwa ngokubizwa nge-inter-cat ubuhlungu. Lesi simo sikhathaza abanikazi futhi singabangela ukuba amakati alahlekelwe ekhaya. Iningi le- inter-cat udlame luhilela amakati amakhwenyana abesilisa abafanayo futhi luba lubi kakhulu ngenkathi yokulinganisa. Yingakho ukugaya noma ukuxhuma ngaphambi kokuzalwa kokuqala kunciphisa noma kuvimbela cishe amaphesenti angama-90 wokuhlukunyezwa kwe-cat.
Kodwa noma yiliphi ikati ezimbili linganquma ukuthi lizondana.
Phela, awuthandi ngokuzenzakalelayo wonke umuntu ohlangana naye. Kungani kulindeleke ukuthi amakati ahluke?
Kitty Poker Communication
Amakati ngokuvamile asebenza ngokuma kwabo ngokuzimela kanye ne-kitty bluffs, futhi akukho kitty olimalayo. Kulezi zimo, amakati angakwazi ukufunda ukubekezelela kanye / noma ukugwema.
Noma kunjalo, ikati eliphansi kunazo zonke (ngokuvamile elidala noma eligulayo) lingaba yilokho okukhethwe yizinye izinhlanzi. Ukuziphatha njengomuntu ohlukunyeziwe (ukuxhuma ngokuzungezile, ukusebenzisa ulimi lomzimba ozithobayo, ukufihla) kufana nokugqoka uphawu lwe "kick me" futhi kumema abahlukunyezwayo ukwandisa ama-bluster abo. Ungalokothi uvumele amakati ukuba "alwe" njengoba lokho kungavamile ukuxazulula izingxabano, kodwa kunalokho kwenza izinto zibi nakakhulu.
Kungani Amakati Alwa
Ukulwa kwe-cat-in-cat kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa okuqondisiwe, ukudlala ukuhlukunyezwa, nokwesaba ukuhlukunyezwa. Izinguquko eqenjini lezenhlalo yenkathi (ukwengeza noma ukuhamba kwelungu) kungenza ukuba ukwanda ku-face-offs.
Izinguquko zemvelo, ezifana nokuhamba kabusha noma ukulungisa kabusha ifenisha yekathi noma iziteshi zokudla / zokugezela, nazo zingabangela ubuso ukuba bahambe. Ngokuyinhloko, noma yikuphi ukuguqulwa komkhuba kungashiya amakati eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ukuze ugcizelele ukuthi bayayithatha. Amakati athola ukuvuthwa komphakathi eminyakeni emibili kuya kwemibili lapho amakati amaningi eqala inselele abanye ngesimo.
Ukuntuleka kwesikhala kubangela ukuba amakati aphikisana nezingxabano zendawo. Amakati aphawula impahla nge-rubs yehlathini, ukulandelela, kanye nokumaka umchamo . Ezinye izinhlanzi ezinobunzima ziheha abanye ensimini yazo bese "ziyala" enye ikati ngokuphambuka. Ukuhlukunyezwa komkhakha we-Feline kubonakala kunzima ukulungisa, futhi ukuziphatha okuphawulekayo kuyimbonakaliso yokuhlukunyezwa okungenzeka. Amakati angaphandle ahlukumeze kakhulu emakhaya abo futhi ikati eliseduzane nekhaya livame ukuphumelela.
Amakati asebenzisa ukukhulumisana okunemlomo nokuthula ukuze kuphakanyiswe isimo sabo phambi kwamanye amahlumela. Baphikisana omunye nomunye ngesimo somzimba esibhekene naso, esibhekene naso phambili, ezwayo kanye nezikhwama, ukuziphatha okukhuphukayo nokukhwabanisa, noma ukuvimbela ukufinyelela kokudla, ukudlala noma ukunakwa. Amanye amakati aphezulu asebentisa "ukulungiswa kwamandla" ukuziphatha , ngokukhohlisa ngamandla elinye ikati ukuze amenze ahambe.
Amathiphu angu-10 okumisa ukucindezelwa kwe-Cat-kuya-Cat
- Nciphise isifiso sokulwa ngokungeza isikhala esiningi sendawo ukuze amakati ahlanganyeli ukushayela, ukufihla, kanye nezindawo zokugubha. Yakha indlu eningi ngamathoyizi angaphezulu, izihlahla zekhati, amabhokisi ebilitha kanye neziteshi zokudla kunamakati angasebenzisa konke ngesikhathi esisodwa.
- Iminyango yemakethe ye-elekthronikhi engavulwa kuphela yikati ehlanganyelwene nayo izomvumela ukuthi afinyelele lonke ikhaya kodwa abuyele endaweni ephephile umhlukumezi angeke alandele. Lezi zivalo zemfuyo zivuliwe ngokuphendula "ukhiye" wamaginasi ngaphakathi kwikhola. Bheka "iminyango ye-keyed" yezilwane zasemfuyo ezitolo ezitolo noma ezise-Intanethi, bese uzifaka emnyango wakho wangaphakathi ukuze ugcine ikati elilodwa phezulu.
- Gwema ukuziphatha okuhle okubuhlungu. Ukunikeza ukudla noma ukunaka ikati elikhukhumezayo kunganciphisa i-angst kodwa empeleni kuyimkhokhela ukuba ibe yi-bully. Esikhundleni salokho, bambamba uSheba ngaphambi kokuba athole i-hersy futhi aqondise indlela yakhe yokuziphatha nge-ithoyi ehlanganyele, njengebhokisi le-flashlight, ukuze amenzele ukudlala kwesinye isiqondiso. Lokho kungamsiza ukuba ahlanganise izinto ezinhle nezinye ikati, kunokuba abe yingozi.
- Uma ithoyizi ingasebenzi, uphazamise nge-aerosol. Khona-ke uma ikati lihamba futhi lizolile, liqinise ukuphathwa okufiselekayo, ithoyizi noma ukunakwa.
- Buyela emuva ezisekelweni futhi uphathe amakati anonya njengokungenisa kwabo okokuqala. Kungcono ukunikeza ikati isisulu indawo yokukhetha yendlu bese ubeka ikati le-bully ekamelweni lokuzihlukanisa.
- Uma ungaboni ukuthuthukiswa okuphawulekayo phakathi nesonto, khuluma nomuntu ozimele wezilwane ukubona ukuthi ngabe ukwelapha izidakamizwa kungaba usizo yini. Izidakamizwa zingasiza ekulawuleni ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo ekati le-bully, ngenkathi kunciphisa "ukukhahlela" ukuzivikela nokuzivikela ikati elisongelwe. Izidakamizwa akuzona ukwelashwa, kodwa zingaba yithuluzi elisiza ukuqeqesha umsebenzi ngempumelelo.
- Uma izibonakaliso zokuhlukunyezwa, ukukhathazeka, kanye / noma ukuqapha kwe-hyper-vigilance ziphela, ziqala kancane ukuveza amakati komunye nomunye ezimweni ezilawulwa kakhulu. Qala ngamakati abathwali , noma ulawulwa ngehhashi futhi ugijime, ekugcineni kwegumbi lakho elikhulu kunazo zonke noma ehholo elide kakhulu.
- Ngesikhathi sesigaba ngasinye ukondla amakati okudla okumnandi noma uhlanganyele ekudlaleni. Lokhu kusiza bobabili amakati ukuba bafunde ukuhlangana nomnandi, imivuzo emihle.
- Ukuphazamisa ukuziphatha okungamukeleki (ukuzwakala, ukukhukhumeza) nge-squirt yomoya ocindezelekile noma isibhamu samanzi, futhi uphonsa ukuphathwa okuncane okumnandi ukuqinisa ukuziphatha okuhle. Isimo se-Counter singathatha izinyanga futhi sidinga ukubekezela nesikhathi esiningi.
- Uma amakati afunde ukubekezelelana futhi avunyelwe ukuzulazula, yenza okungenani iziteshi ezimbili zokudla kanye nezindawo zokugezela ezimbili, kodwa umthetho owodwa kuya komunye ungcono (owodwa kwikati ngayinye, kanye neyodwa). Zithole ngakho amakati angeke abanjwe noma amangale lapho esebenzisa noma.
Ukuduma nokufutheka ngaphandle kwegazi kuchithekile kubonisa ukuthi banomjovo omuhle wokuluma. Kodwa ukulwa okumbalwa okubangelwa ukulimala okuningi kubonisa ukuthi okungenani elinye lamakati lingenalo ukuvimbela kakhulu noma lifuna ukubulala elinye ikati.
Amakati anzondana futhi adonse igazi ngesikhathi sokulwa ahlaselwa kabi kakhulu. Lapho wonke amaqhinga ehlulekile ukumisa amakati amabili angaphakathi ekulwa, ekugcineni ikati elilodwa lingadinga ukufakwa ekhaya elisha noma lihlukaniswe unomphela kwenye indawo kwenye ingxenye yendlu. Lokhu akuyeki; ukwenza impilo ibe ngcono kangcono ngamakati nawe.