Izinja nePhobias
Izinja zingabonisa ukuziphatha okunesabekayo ezimweni ezihlukahlukene. Ezinye izinkolelo zezinja ezivamile kanye nama-phobias zihlanganisa ukuduma kwezulu, izingane, ukugibela ezimotweni, nokuningi. Kungaba nezici eziningana ezithintekayo ekuthuthukiseni ukwesaba noma izinhlanzi ezinja.
Okubalulekile Ukuthola Imbangela Yokusaba Inja
Uma inja yakho ibhekene nosaba noma i-phobia, kubalulekile ukuzama ukuthola imbangela.
Imiphumela yokwesaba kwenja icindezela inja kanye nomnikazi, futhi ukuthola umthombo wokwesaba ngokuvamile kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekuxazululeni noma ekunciphiseni inkinga. Ukunqoba ukwesaba kuzuzisa ngoba kuzoqeda ukukhathazeka nokuhlupheka lokho inja nomnikazi abazobhekana nakho. Njengoba izinja zingaba nobudlova ngenxa yesaba, ukuphatha ukuziphatha kwezinja kulesabayo kungenza indlela ende ukugcina wonke umuntu ephephile.
Ukuntuleka Kwezenhlalo Zokuqala
Esinye sezimbangela ezivame kakhulu ukwesaba noma ukuphosa izinja kuwukuntula kokuqala komphakathi . Izinja zidlula esikhathini esibucayi sokuthuthukiswa uma ziphakathi kweminyaka engama-8 kuya kwangu-16. Izinja ezingabonakali ezintweni ezintsha kule nkathi zingase zamesabe izinto ezintsha kamuva ekuphileni. Lesi esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko izinja ezesaba izinto ezifana nokugibela emotweni, ukuhlangana nabantu abangabazi, nokunyuka ngezinyathelo.
I-Phobias kanye nokwesaba okuthuthukayo ngenxa yokuntuleka kokuzibandakanya kokuqala kungase kulungiswe ngokudalula inja ezintweni ezesaba ukusebenzisa eziningi zokuqinisa .
Ngokuhamba kancane ukuthola inja yakho esetshenziselwa abantu abangajwayelekile, izindawo, kanye nezinto, ungase ukwazi ukuqeda ukwesaba noma ukuphazamiseka ngokuphelele, noma okungenani unciphise izinga lokumesaba kwenja.
Okuhlangenwe nakho Okubi
Okuhlangenwe nakho okubi kungenye isizathu sokuba izinja zihlakulele ukwesaba nama-phobias. I-Sassy, i-Labrador Retriever emnyama uyisibonelo esihle senja eyathuthuka ukwesaba ngenxa yezinto ezimbi.
Njenge-puppy, uSassy washiya ekhaya yedwa ngenkathi abanikazi bakhe basebenza. Ngaphandle kokuba abanikazi beqaphela lokho, omunye umqashi wafika ngolunye usuku ukuze alungise uphahla lwesakhiwo. U-Sassy wayeseyedwa futhi esaba kakhulu njengoba ezwa ukuqhuma okuqhubekayo ophahleni usuku lonke. Abanikazi bakhe bafika ekhaya ukuthola ukuthi i-pup yabo ejabule ekhoneni ekhoneni, ethuthumela futhi ehlaselwa. Ngemva kokuphenya, baqaphela imbangela yokwesaba kwakhe, kodwa ngenxa yokuphila kukaSassy, wayesaba kakhulu ukwethuka okukhulu. Wayevame ukuba adluliswe ngesikhathi sokuduma kwezulu nangomhlaka 4 kaJulayi , futhi ukubuyisela emuva kwemoto kungathumela ukukhipha kwakhe ukufihla endlini yokugezela.
Indaba kaSassy ayiyona into evamile. Uma inja ihambelana nomuntu, indawo, noma into enokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu, kungenzeka ukuthi inja izokwakhiwa ukwesaba noma i-phobia kule nto. Izinga lokuhlukunyezwa okudingekayo ngenja ukuthuthukisa i-phobia ihlukile kunja kuya enja. Ezinye izinja zingase zihlukunyezwe ekuqaleni kwenkathi yokuphila, futhi zisabingelela wonke umuntu engumfokazi ukuthi uhlangana nomsila ogijimayo. Enye inja ingase ibe nomsila wakhe udonsa ingane kanye noma kabili, futhi kwanele ukuba athuthukise ukwesaba izingane ezincane.
Izakhi zofuzo
Izakhi zofuzo nazo zidlala indima ekwenzeni ukwesaba.
Njengoba nje inja ingadla umbala wengubo kanye nosayizi kubazali bayo, naye angayithola ifa zobuntu. Kunengqondo ukuthi inja enamahloni neyamahloni ingase ibe nenzalo enamahloni neyamahloni. Kungaba nzima ukunquma ukuthi ukwesaba kwenja kuvela ekuzaleni izakhi zofuzo, kodwa into eyodwa yukuthi inja esaba nokwesaba izakhi zofuzo ingase ibonakale isaba izinto eziningi kunokuba ibe nesimo esisodwa esithile. Kukhona neminye imikhakha ejwayelekile kakhulu kunezinye.
Ukwesaba okungenxa yezici zofuzo kungaba nzima ukunqoba. Kungaba usizo, noma kunjalo, ukusebenza nomqeqeshi wezinja noma umkhuba wokuziphatha owazi ukusebenzisana nezinja eziyesabayo. Nakuba bengakwazi ukubeka ukwesaba kwenja yakho ukuphumula ngokuphelele, kungenzeka ukuthi ushintshe izinga lokwesaba ukuze inja yakho ijabule futhi ikhululeke ezimweni ezihlukahlukene.
Ihlelwe nguJenna Stregowski, i-RVT