Izinja eziningi zihlushwa ukwesaba abantu abangabazi. Bazama, bathuthumele futhi bazame ukufihla kunoma yimuphi umuntu omusha abahlangana naye. Nazi ezinye izinto okufanele wazi uma inja yakho isaba abantu abangabazi.
Okwenza Ezinye Izinja Ziyesabe Izihambi
Kunezizathu ezimbili eziyinhloko ukuthi inja ingabe isaba abantu abangabazi. Okokuqala yizici zofuzo. Inja enamahloni neyamahloni ingase ibe nomthelela wokukhiqiza inzalo enhle. Inja esaba ngokwesaba bonke abantu abangabazi, kunokuba ukwesaba abantu noma izingane, kungase kube nokwesaba.
Ukungabi nokuzibandakanya okuhle njengenjabulo kungenye isizathu izinja eziningi ezesaba abantu abangabazi. Izinja ezingakaze zithole ithuba lokuhlangana nabantu abahlukahlukene njengamantombazane cishe amathuba okuthuthukisa ukwesaba abantu abangabazi.
Amathiphu Wokusingatha Inja Eyesabekayo
Ukwesaba inja kwabangamazi kufanele kuthathwe ngokucophelela. Zonke izinja zisabela ngokuhlukile lapho zisesaba. Enye inja ingase igwebe ekhoneni phambi kowezihambi. Enye inja ingase isabele ngokukhala noma ukuxhuma kumfokazi. Kunezinto eziningana ongayenza ukuze unciphise inja yezinja:
- Ungalokothi uphoqise inja ukwamukela ukusingatha kusuka kumuntu ongaziwayo. Ukuphoqelela inja ukuthi ibhekane nokwesaba ngale ndlela kungabangela ukwesaba ukwesaba kwakhe. Uma inja isuswa kude kakhulu endaweni yakhe yokududuza futhi ingavunyelwe ukuba ihambe, ingase ibuye isebenzise ukuze ibalekele.
- Yiba nezivakashi ezingayinaki inja ngenkathi kukhishwa. Noma kunini uma umuntu omusha evakashele, bawaqaphele ngokuphelele inja. Izivakashi akufanele zizame ukuncelisa noma ukuxhumana neja. Yenza okunye ukuphatha ukuze isivakashi sakho siphonsa ngobumnene phansi eduze nenja yakho isikhathi sokuvakasha kwakhe. Inja eyesabekayo ingase iqale kancane ukuhlanganisa nabantu abangabazi ngemiklomelo.
Vumela inja ukuba isondele kumuntu ongaziwayo ngokwemibandela yakhe. Ngokuya ngobukhulu besaba lwenja yakho, izinja ezithile zingashesha ukufudumala kumfokazi futhi zivumele ukuthambisa nokuphatha ngenkathi abanye bangathatha ukuvakashelwa okumbalwa ukufudumala kubantu abasha. Kubalulekile ukuthi umfokazi angayinaki inja aze inja iqale ukuxhumana.
Uma inja isondela, abantu abangaziwa kufanele baqhubeke nokugwema ukuxhumana kwamehlo futhi benze izinyathelo ezihamba kancane, ezingasongeli.
- Nikeza inja yakho ngendawo ephephile eyakhe. Uma inja yakho ingakhathazeki nezivakashi zakho ezingajwayelekile, vumela ukuba abaleke. Kuyasiza uma unendawo lapho eyazi khona ukuthi uzoshiywa yedwa. I- crate yenza indawo ephelele yokubalekela lapho inja yakho iqala ukukhathazeka kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi uzoshiywa yedwa lapho ekhona kule ndawo.
- Sebenza ngokulalela ukulalela. Uma izinja ziyesaba, zivame ukuba nzima kakhudlwana ukugxila kunoma yikuphi ukukhathazeka kwabo. Uma usebenza ngokwengeziwe ekuqeqesheni ukulalela nenja yakho, cishe uzophendula imiyalo lapho ezwa ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Ukuba nawe lapho ukuze umnike isiqondiso sendlela yokuziphathisa kulezi zimo kungasiza ukumthulisa phansi.
- Qaphela ulimi lwakho lomzimba. Ngokuvamile abanikazi bezinja balindele inja yabo isabela ngokwesaba kubantu abangabazi. Lokhu kungabangela ukuthi umnikazi ahlasele noma afake ingcindezi ku-leash. Izinja zihle kakhulu ekufundeni ulimi lomzimba ngakho lezi zinto zingase zibe yisignali enja yakho ukuthi kukhona owesabekayo ozofika. Qaphela lokho okutshela inja yakho ngolimi lomzimba wakho, bese uzama ukuhlala unobungane, ukhululekile futhi uphakamise lapho wena nenja yakho behlangana nabantu abasha.
- Hiring umqeqeshi wezinja noma oziphethe kahle. Ngenxa yokuthi ukwesaba okukhulu abantu abangabazi kungaholela ekuziphatheni okubi, kufaka phakathi ukuklabalaza, ukuxubha, nokushaya, kungaba usizo ukusebenza nomqeqeshi wezinja noma ukuziphatha ngendlela yokubhekana nesimo sokubhekana nokwesaba kwenja yakho.
- Thatha izinyathelo zokuphepha. Ngenxa yokuthi izinja ezesaba abantu abangabazi zingase zithumele kulokho kwesaba, kungumsebenzi wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uhlala ephephile nxazonke zenja yakho. Lokhu kungase kusho ukubeka inja yakho ekamelweni elihlukile lapho abantu abathile bevakashela noma ukuba inja yakho igqoke imbobo uma iphuma ukuhamba.
- Iba nesineke. Yonke inja ifunda futhi iguqule ngokuhamba kwayo. Le nqubo ingathatha amasonto, izinyanga, noma ngaphezulu. Ezinye izinja ngeke zamukele ngokugcwele abantu abangabazi, kodwa ungase ukwazi ukusiza ukwehlisa ukwesaba kwenja ngezinga elithile.
Ihlelwe nguJenna Stregowski, i-RVT