Ngizokwazi Kanjani Uma "Isikhathi" Sokubeka Ubuthongo Ukulala?

Ukwenza isinqumo sokuqeda impilo yesilwane akulula neze, futhi akuvamile ukuthi uphendule ngokucacile. Le-FAQ igxile ezindleleni zokuhlola "ikhwalithi yokuphila" yesilwane sakho, futhi wenze isinqumo sokuthi ngeke kugcwaliswe ngokuzisola nangecala.

Kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu sokuzivuselela ("ukulala") isilwane esithandekayo ngenxa yokulimala, ukuguga kanye nezifo. Abantu bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi bazokwazi nini uma "yisikhathi", futhi abaningi bebuza udokotela wabo wezilwane "ungenzenjani uma bekuyisilwane sakho?".

Njengesidokotela wezilwane, ngivame ukubuza lo mbuzo kodwa ngingenzi lesi sinqumo sokugcina kunoma imuphi umnikazi wesilwane. Esikhundleni salokho, ngigxile ezindabeni zezokwelapha namaqiniso, ngakho umnikazi uzoba nolwazi lokusiza ukwenza isinqumo esinolwazi. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukuxoxa ngemiphumela engenzeka yezifo ezibulalayo noma izimo ukuze abanikazi bazi ukuthi yini okufanele balindelwe futhi bayilinde. Noma kunjalo, impendulo ayisobala ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngakho-ke nginikeza lo mqondo: cishe "isikhathi" lapho izinsuku ezimbi ziqala ukwedlula izinhle. Abanikazi bezilwane ngokuvamile babe nomqondo wokuthi 'kuhle' futhi 'kubi' empilweni yesilwane sabo. Ishadi lesonto ngaphezulu noma inyanga.

Nazi ezinye izinto okufanele uzicabangele uma uhlola ikhwalithi yesilwane sakho sokuphila:

Ukwengeza, ukuzijwayeza ngenqubo yokwelapha nokubhebhetheka kwesifo sokudla kwesifo socansi nokuthi yini ongayilindela ngaphambi kwesandla kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka komcimbi wangempela.

Ungesabi ukubuza kusengaphambili udokotela wakho wezilwane mayelana nenqubo noma yimuphi omunye umbuzo ongase ube nawo. Lesi yisikhathi esithintekile ngokomzwelo, futhi ukuhlala nempendulo engaphenduliwe noma inecala kungavimbela inqubo yokuphulukisa. Sicela ubone leli khasi ukuze uthole izinsiza eziningi zokubhekana nokulahlekelwa nosizi.