Izithonya ezimathweni zobuntu bekati kanye namaphethini wokuziphatha
Ikati lakho kungenzeka libe nobuntu obuyisisekelo kodwa ubonise izindlela ezihlukene nsuku zonke. Uma ufuna ukuqonda kangcono ukuthi yini eyenza ikati lakho libheke, cabangela lezi zici ezithinta ubuntu babo.
I-Genetics ne-Cat Personality
Kungenzeka ukuthi ukwazi ngokuphelele izakhi zofuzo ezihlanzekile . Izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zekati ziye zaba khona isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuthi izici zabo ezihlukanisayo ezifana nohlobo lomzimba kanye nobuntu akuhambisani kahle.
Njengoba abafuyi bezinkathi benze imizamo yokuzalisa ukuthayipha, imibala phakathi kwezihlobo nayo ibuye ibe njalo, ngokusho kwamazinga okuzalwa. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi imibala ngamakati ngezinye izikhathi ithwala izici zobuntu.
Ubuntu phakathi kohlobo olunikeziwe luhlala lungaguquguquki, nezinye izinto ngaphandle. Isibonelo, i-Cat Fanciers Association yasePersian Cat Profile ichaza ubuntu bayo ngokuthi "amnandi," "abumnene," futhi adinga "isimo sokulondeka nokuthula."
Izingosi zemvelo
Njengoba iningi lezinkoma ezifuywayo ziyizinhlobonhlobo ezifuywayo noma ezixubile , imvelo yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebusweni babo. Isici esisodwa esibaluleke kunazo zonke sezemvelo emakati ekhaya "Isiphi isimo sekhaya?" Ikhaya lapho ukuxhumana kwamalungu omndeni wesintu kuvame ukuba khona ngisho nakanjani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuthula futhi kuvumelana noma kunomsindo futhi kujabulise ngenjabulo, kuyisimo esihle kakhulu samakati.
Enye yezinkathi izinto ezizondayo kakhulu ukuguquka kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, futhi lokho kufaka phakathi izinguquko ezizindleleni zansuku zonke. Uma abantu bejabule futhi bekhuthele ngomzuzu owodwa, behamba phambili futhi behamba kude, futhi mhlawumbe baphikisana ngokuzwakalayo ngokulandelayo, amakati azobonisa lezi zinguquko ngokusho kobuqu babo.
Ikati elinamahloni, elihoxisiwe lingase lifihle ngaphansi kombhede izinsuku. Ikati evame ukusebenzisana, elalibambe iqhaza lingase livele ngokuzenzekelayo livule indlu yakhe ethandekayo ye-feline -okungafani nokwahlukana kwesifo sobudlova .
Izibonelo zenguquko ezingathinta ikati lakho zihlanganisa:
- Izihambi ziyeza futhi zihamba , njengezivakashi ezintsha noma ukuvuselelwa.
- Ikati elisha noma ikati endlini.
- Ukugula ekhaya, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ilungu lomuntu ogulayo noma ikati eligulayo, kuyishintsho kuzo zonke amakati. Ikati eligulayo lingase licindezeleke. Amakati asaphila ayolila ukulahlekelwa uma umuntu efa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma amalungu omkhaya wesintu engxenyeni enkulu ye-keel, nakuba kungesiqiniseko esizenzekelayo sokuthula ngaphakathi kwekathi, amakati azozizwa ekhululekile ukuxhumana ngokuvumelana nezimo zabo.
Amakati ayidalwa ekhangayo futhi ayibekezelele amabhokisi amatafula angcolile noma ukudla okudakiwe. Ukungaziboni kuyinto eyodwa, kodwa indlu engcolile, enobuhlungu iyodwa. Kulo hlobo lwamazinga, amakati amaningi ayezoxoshwa, ecindezelekile futhi mhlawumbe agula ngokomzimba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ikhaya elihlanzekile (hhayi ukuthi lihlanzekile), elinokudla okunomsoco , amanzi apholile, ahlanzekile, amathoyizi, nokuqhafaza okuthunyelwe, ubeka isisekelo samakati ajabule, zonke ezinye izinto zilingana.
Umlando
Umlando wenkathi udlala indima enkulu ebuntwini bakhe, kanye nokuziphatha. Ngamakati amaningi ahlanzekile atholakala kwikhathi, inzalo ephelele ebuyela emuva izizukulwane eziningana izoba yingxenye yentengo yokuthenga. Noma kunjalo, umlando akuyona nje isizalo. Ngokuqinisekile, ikati elihlanzekile elithengiwe kumzalisi wegumbi (umgodla wesikhumba) uyoba nobuntu obuhlukile kunekati ephakanyiswe "ngaphansi" ekhaya elinyathelisiwe lomfuyi.
Kodwa-ke, ngamakati afuywayo , abaningi babo kungenzeka ukuthi batholakala emgwaqweni, noma bavunyelwe emakhaya okuhlala emfuyweni , kaningi kakhulu baziwa ngomlando wenkathi. Ikati kungenzeka ukuthi isesimweni esihlukumezayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi wayethandwa ngumuntu emndenini wakhe wangaphambili, kodwa omunye umuntu wanquma ukuthola inja, futhi ikati kwakudingeka lihambe. Noma, abanikazi bangaphambilini kungenzeka ukuthi baxoshiwe noma ngabe indlu yabo yabikwe yisikweletu.
Kulezi zimo, akuyona into engavamile kubo ukuthi bamane nje bashiye ikati ngemuva noma bamshiye endaweni yokukhosela.
Noma yikuphi ukuhlanganiswa kwezici ezingenhla kuzoba nemiphumela emihle ehlukahlukene yobuntu bamakati ngaphakathi kwendlu enikeziwe. Ikati elahlukunyezwa ekhaya langaphambilini cishe lizodinga ukunakekelwa okhethekile, kodwa ekugcineni lingaba ikati elihle kakhulu elinomuntu onothando, onothando. Kodwa-ke, uma elahliwe endaweni engahlelekile, isimo esingasebenzi, noma ikhaya elinemibandela eminingi yokucindezeleka, ingase ibe "ikati eliyingozi" njalo.
Ubukhosi phakathi kwamakati
Imindeni eminingi yemikhakha eminingi inokuhleleka, okungashintsha kusukela ngezikhathi ezithile kuze kube yilapho nosuku nosuku.
- I-Alpha Cat: Amakati e-Alpha asebenzisa ukubaluleka kwawo kwamanye amakati ekhaya. Lokhu kungaholela ekuhlanganisweni okunonya lapho elinye ikati lisongela ekubuseni kwalo. Ikati lingase libonise ukuhlambalaza nokugeleza noma ukuhlaselwa ngaphandle. Amakati e-Alpha nawo azama ukusebenzisa amandla abo phezu kwabantu bawo, okuyinto isimo esibucayi. Ngenkathi ungafuni ukuba ngumhlukumezi, awukwazi futhi ukuvumela ikati ukukuhlukumeza. Ukususwa kwamalungelo kuyindlela enhle yokuqeqesha lapha (enye ilungelo lokuba yinkampani yethu). Ifundisa amathikithi imbangela nemiphumela, isib. "Uyangiluma uma ngikushaya, futhi awusatholi izilwane ezifuywayo namuhla," noma, " Uzama ukugcoba isidlo sokudla; uvale kuze kube yilapho amanye amakati adle. "
- I-Cat Beta: Ngokuvamile okwesibili emgqeni we-cat cat iyisikali se-beta, nakuba lokhu akusho ukuthi ikati ye-beta ifuna ukuthola i-alpha. Lapho i-alpha cat engekho ekamelweni, amakati we-beta angase azame ukusungula ukubusa kwesibili.
Ungabe Uwabonise Ngaphandle?
Amakati ngokuvamile ahlolisisa, abonisa ukuziphatha komuntu wokuqala, bese omunye. Ngabantu, singabiza lolu hlobo lokuziphatha "ukuzizwa kahle." Kunezinto ezintathu kuphela eziphathelene nabo okungathiwa ngokuqinisekile:
- Ngeke uzizwe ngokugcwele.
- Ziwumthombo ongavamile wothando olungenamthetho, into abantu abayifisa.
- Ukuphila kwakho bekuyoba okungenalutho futhi kukhonsa ngaphandle kwabo.