Ukuziphatha okuyingqayizivele kwamakati kubandakanya ukuqoqa - lokho kungavamile indlela ikhanda lakho elikukhanda ngayo. Ithimba lobuchwepheshe liyi- bunting futhi libhekisela endleleni ikati elicindezela ngayo bese ligaqa ikhanda layo ngokumelene nezinto. Elinye igama lobuchwepheshe, i- allorubbing , libhekisela endleleni amakati athela ngayo imizimba yawo ngokumelene nelinye ikati, umuntu, noma inja yomndeni ethembekile.
Ukuqonda Ukuziphatha Kokubanjwa Kwamathambo
Amakati agubha amakhanda awo ngokumelene nezinto ezivelele ukushiya izimpawu ezimnandi njengeyingxenye yokuxhumana okumnandi .
Kuye into yokukhulumisana kwekati, kungenzeka ukuthi ucele ubunikazi noma abonise injabulo.
Ama-Glands ama-Gent Scent
Amakati anezinhlayiya eziningana eziphunga emzimbeni wonke. Zitholakala phakathi kwezinzwane ukuze iphunga lifakwe emakhonkweni , kodwa nazo zikhona ngaphansi kwe-chinki, emagumbini omlomo, amathempeli, isisekelo, ubude bomsila, nezindlebe. Asazi ukuthi i-gland ngayinye inephunga elihlukile noma cha, kodwa amakati athambekele ekusebenziseni lonke ikhanda ngezikhathi ezithile izibonisi zokuxubha ezinokuzithokozisa.
Yisiphi isici senhloko esetshenziswa kuncike ekuphakameni kwezinto ezihlosiwe. Ikhanda kanye nezindlebe zivame ukuxubha ezintweni eziphakeme kakhulu lapho izinto eziphakama ikhanda ziphawulwe ngesipepayi kusukela ekhoneni lomlomo kuya endlebeni. Izinto ezingezansi zihlwithwa ngesikhumba nomphimbo.
Nakuba ukuxubha phakathi kwamakati kubonakala sengathi kwenzeka kaningi phakathi kwamakati wamasayizi ahlukene.
Ochwepheshe abacaci ekuqondeni okuqondile kwalokhu kuxhumana. Kucatshangwa ukuthi ukugoqa, lapho kuqondiswa kwenye ikati, kusebenza ukuqondisa kabusha ukuhlukunyezwa, mhlawumbe ikati elilingana nokubonisa uphawu "lokuthula".
Head Rubbing on Abanikazi
Amanye amakati atholakale kakhulu futhi aguqule ukuziphatha emncintiswaneni wokukhwabanisa ikhanda (ouch!), Kuyilapho abanye bephuza umzimba wabo nomsila nxazonke nasemaphandleni omuntu.
Asikwazi ngokuqinisekile, kepha amakati athambekele ekuthumeni izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kubo. Basebenzisa i-allorubbing ngamakati anobungane, hhayi ngabangewona. Ikati ekhanda ubuso bakho ngamahloni avulekile eduze kobuso bakho ikukhokhela ngokuncoma okukhulu ngokuzibeka esimweni esingasengozini. Sithanda ukucabanga ukuthi yonke i-ororubbing (noma ukushaya ikhanda uma ukhetha) ibonisa uthando oluthi, "Ubaluleke kakhulu kimi!"