Izimbangela Nezixazululo Zokuthutha Okumangalisayo
Ungase uqaphele ukuthi ikati lakho le- neutered lezinsikazi lizama ukuhlasela, ukuhlasela, ukukhuphuka nokuxosha ikati lakho lesifazane. Lokhu kungabangela ukuthi owesifazane ubalekele futhi afihlwe, eshiya owesilisa ukuba ajabulele isikhathi nawe noma ukufinyelela kokudla noma ezinye izinsiza. Uma lokhu kuqhubeka isikhathi esithile, sebenzisa i- HISS Test ukuhlaziya ukuthi yini engase iqhube ngaphakathi kulolo cwaningo lobuchopho.
H: Impilo
Isizathu sezempilo esiphezulu sokuhlukunyezwa kwekati yi- hyperthyroidism- kodwa lokhu kubathinta kakhulu amakati asekudala noma asekhulile.
Kungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuba udokotela wakho wezilwane akhiphe izinkinga zempilo ezifihliwe kuzo zombili amakati. Uma bethola ibhilidi ehlanzekile yezempilo, futhi uma ukuziphatha okugxilile nokuzikhukhumeza kuye kwaqhubeka njalo ngesikhathi uke waba namakati, cishe kuyinkinga yokuziphatha.
I: I-Instinct
Ukuziphatha ngokuzithobayo (ukukhuphuka) kuyinto evamile kuwo wonke amakati (amacansini). Ngisho nangemva kokuhlinzwa kwe-neuter, ama-hormona athatha isikhathi sokuphuma emzimbeni futhi ekhuphuka (ukubamba ngama-forepaws, ukufaka intamo ngamazinyo, nokugxila) kungenza ukuba ukuziphatha kuqhubeke amasonto ambalwa.
Ngezinye izikhathi i-kitties ehlangene iqhubeka nalezi zenzo. Bangase bahlose amanye amakati-akubonakali kungabalulekile uma lo mlingani engathintwa noma ehlalwa-futhi ngezinye izikhathi amakati angabi "abangane abakhethekile" ngomuthi othile noma ithoyizi eligxotshiwe. Nakuba ama-hormone esekho, lezi zinja ziyaqhubeka nokushaya indlwabu futhi zihle kakhulu ngaphakathi kokuziphatha okujwayelekile.
Ngokuvamile, lo msebenzi uvusa abanikazi ngaphezu kwalokho okwenza ezinye izilwane ezifuywayo.
Kodwa-ke, amakati asebenzisa nokuziphatha okukhuphuka njengendlela yokuqinisa isimo sezenhlalo. Amakati afinyelela ekuvuthweni komphakathi phakathi kweminyaka engama-2 no-4. Ngaphambi kwaleyo nkathi, bangase bahambisane nomdlandla, futhi ngokuzumayo ukuma kwezenhlalo kumphakathi kuqala ukubaluleka.
Ukunyuka komfana wakho nokunyuka, bese ukuxosha intombazane encane emithonjeni ebalulekile kungabonisa izinkinga zomhlaba kanye nokuziphatha komuntu .
S: Ukucindezeleka
Indlela le ntombazana ephendula ngayo nayo ithinta isimo sengqondo somfana. Amakati aphansi angakwazi ukuziphatha njengokungathi agqoke uphawu lwe "kick me", futhi lokho kumema ikati eliphezulu ukuphinda isifundo ngokuphindaphindiwe.
S: Izimpawu, Izimpawu, nezixazululo
Ungase ukhungatheke ngomfana womfana futhi ufuna ukuthi amakati amabili ahlangane. Nakuba kungase kubonakale kunengqondo ukwelapha amakati ngendlela efanayo-futhi ungadlali izintandokazi-umqondo womuntu wokulungile nokungalungile futhi ukudlala okungalungile ngezinye izikhathi kuthola indlela yokusebenzisana kwekati.
Amakati akuzona abantu. Abanayo inkululeko yentando yeningi, ukwelashwa okulinganayo, noma okulungile. Ekathini, "ikati eliphezulu" lifanelwe ukwelashwa okukhethekile ngoba nje yikati eliphezulu. Ngisho nentombazanyana iyayiqonda lokhu, futhi ayiphikisani icala. Eqinisweni, usebenza ngendlela enhle kakhulu futhi abuyele kumfana bese ebalekela, enikeze imithombo ethandwayo.
Uma kunalokho wenqaba ukwamukela ikati lomfana njenge-kitty-in-charge, noma ngisho unikeze intombazane intombazane yokwelashwa okukhethayo, engakwazi ukubuyela emuva. Esikhundleni somfana "ukuqonda" futhi abuyele entandweni yakho, uvuselela umzamo wakhe wokubeka le nkomba yentombazane endaweni yakhe.
Akubonakali "kuhle" kepha "kuyiqiniso" kwamakati, futhi ngezinye izikhathi abantu kufanele bahlangane nabo ngokwemibandela yabo.
Ongakwenza
Nasi ikhambi eliphakanyisiwe. Uma amakati asegumbini elilodwa nawe, bangase bancintisane. Kuyinto evamile yesikati ukuze bahlanganyele ngezidingo ezibalulekile, nekhasi lezintambo eliphansi elibhekene nomfana ophakeme lapho efuna lokhu. Hlonipha ukuma kwezenhlalo. Cha, awufuni ukuthi agibele intombazanyana, kodwa esikhathini esifushane, ekhombisa amakati omabili owamukelayo futhi aqinise ukuma komuntu okumele akwazi ukulungisa isidingo sakhe sokwenza iphuzu ekhaya.
Ngamanye amazwi, yondla umfana kuqala. Mnake kuqala. Masihlale epeni lakho kuqala. Kungenzeka ukuthi uma lokhu kuba "okuvamile" ngeke kudingeke ukuba ahlasele njalo futhi uzophumula futhi abe nokuthanda ukuhlanganyela.
Thola izindlela zokubuyisa ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, kunokuba ujeziswe njengokumgwaza ngamanzi ukuyeka ukuziphatha kwakhe okubi. Uma enesifiso sokuqhubeka nomsebenzi we-humping, mnike ithoyizi eligxotshiwe ngakho uzoshiya intombazane yedwa. Uma ezama ukuqonda intamo yakhe, ungase uzame ukudweba u-apula obabayo oboyeni bakhe ngakho-ke uyathandeka kabi (kepha akakwazi ukufika ngakho ngeke kumkhathaze).
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, thola izikhathi zokusebenzisa ukunakekelwa okukodwa nge-girl kitty ngokwehlukana. Ngaleyo ndlela akudingeki ukuba ancintisane.