Ukusiza Amakati Ukubhekana Nokulahlekelwa Kwezinye Izilwane Ezifuywayo
Ukulahlekelwa okuncane nokudabuka kungaba nzima futhi kuyabuhlungu kubantu, kodwa kungaba inselelo enkulu nakakhulu ukusiza izilwane eziphilayo ezibhekene nokulahlekelwa kwesilwane. Amakati enza, empeleni, abe lusizi.
Abakwazi ukusitshela indlela abazizwa ngayo. Futhi abanikazi bomndeni bangase balahle izinguquko zokuziphatha ngenkathi bebhekana nomqondo wabo wokulahleka. Akuzona zonke izilwane ezifuywayo ezizobhekana nazo, kanti amaphesenti abonakala ehlupheka kakhulu. Uma izilwane ezifuywayo zisizi, zivame ukubonisa umuzwa wokulahlekelwa nokushintsha kokuziphatha.
Eqinisweni, ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukanisa kuyindlela eyodwa yokudabuka - ikati lakho kuphela eliqonda ukuthi umuntu omthandayo uphelile.
Ukulahlekelwa Kwezilwane Nezingcingo
Izilwane ezifuywayo ezihlala njalo ziqala ukwenza ngendlela ehlukile lapho ikati noma umngane wabo eqala ukugula noma eqala ukwehla. Kubantu, lokhu kungase kube yisikhathi sokulungiselela, kanti ezinye zezinsizi zethu zingenziwa kahle kusengaphambili kokufa kwangempela kwesilwane. UDkt. Barbara Kitchell, isazi sekhanda lesayensi yezilwane , uthi ukululekwa kwesisulu kaningi kuyingxenye yalokho okwenziwa ngokwezilwane ezithintekayo.
Asikwazi ukuthi uma izilwane eziphilayo zihlala zibona abangane babo bezilwane zasendle bazofa maduzane, kodwa ngokuqinisekile benza njengokungathi ushintsho luye - noma luzokwenzeka. Eqinisweni, amakati amaningi azwelayo (kanye nezinja) asabela lapho abanikazi bawo bekhungathekile ngokomzwelo futhi ehlushwa ngokuphendula izinguquko zethu zokuziphatha phezu kwenhliziyo.
Ukudabuka Okuncane
Isilwane esiphilayo singase sibonakale sihoxisiwe futhi sicindezelekile. Ngokuvamile izinguquko zobuntu kanye nekati elihlekayo lingase libe yinto enzima kakhulu , kanti ikati elifuna ukusifihla.
Esinye sezimo ezibuhlungu kunazo zonke kwenzeka lapho isilwane esiphilayo sikhala futhi sibheka yonke indawo othandekayo othandekayo. Ngiyazi ngamacala lapho lolu cwaningo lwalusizi, olubuhlungu luqhubeka khona amasonto.
Nakuba kuzwakala ama-macabre, ngezinye izikhathi kungasiza ukuvumela isilwane esiphila ukuthi sithi "uhlehle" emzimbeni ngemuva kokuba umngane onomlilo efile.
Bangase bahogoze futhi bahlole umzimba, bekhala noma bawulahle yonke into ndawonye - futhi noma yikuphi ukusabela kufanele kuthathwe njengokujwayelekile. Yileyo ndlela kuphela esingayichazela ngayo okwenzekile kumngane wabo, futhi kungani umhlobo othandekayo-noma inja-othandekayo elahlekile empilweni yakhe. Ukubuka umzimba womngane kubenza baqonde ukuthi akabuyisanga. Basadabuka kodwa abaxoshwa ukuba bafune umngane wabo olahlekile.
Izinyathelo Zokudabukisa
Abantu bahamba ngezigaba eziningana zokudabuka - ukuphika, intukuthelo, ukuxoxisana, ukucindezeleka, ukwamukelwa - kodwa hhayi kule ndlela. Ngenkathi i-anthropomorphic ukucabanga ukuthi izilwane ezifuywayo zingase "zithengise " (Ngizokuvumela ukuthi uthathe ithoyizi yami ye- catnip uma nje ubuya!) Ngokuqinisekile kunendawo yokuthi bangase bathukuthele noma bacindezeleke ngokulahlekelwa. Ngokuvamile izilwane ezifuywayo zibonakala zisebenza esimweni sokwamukelwa - kuthatha ezinye izilwane ezifuywayo isikhathi eside kunabanye njengoba nje abantu belahlekelwa ukulahlekelwa ngezikhathi ezihlukene.
Izinto eziningi esizenzayo komunye nomunye zingasiza izilwane zethu ezifuywayo. UDkt. Wallace Sife, isazi sezengqondo, nomlobi we "Loss of a Pet" uthi ukuvumela ukulila futhi ukuqinisekisana nomunye nomunye ngokumane unikeze ububele nokusekela.
Ukusiza Amakati Esizi
Usiza kanjani izilwane ezifuywayo ukuphatha usizi?
Ukuhlala nje nabo ukuze uthole isikhathi esisodwa ngokwengeziwe kungasiza.
- Khuluma nabo. Zama ukuzungezile ezizwaneni zakho ezililayo. Bangase bangayiqondi amagama kodwa bayothatha imizwelo yakho. Mane nje uthi, ngidabukile, futhi ngizizwa ngimangalisa, kodwa akusiyo iphutha lakho - futhi ngiyazi ukuthi uzizwa ukhululekile, futhi. Uzofuna ukugwema ukubamba, noma kunjalo, ngoba lokho kungabuyisa isilwane sokusebenza ngokucindezeleka.
- Dlala umculo, ikakhulukazi ukuphakamisa, i-tempos esheshayo ukuphakamisa ukucindezeleka. Umculo we-Harp ungaba nomphumela omuhle. Kodwa noma iyiphi umculo isilwane sakho esihlotshaniswa nezikhathi ezinhle ingaba usizo.
- Imithi yamakhemikhali ibuye iseze iphesenti yezilwane ezifuywayo. I-Bach Flower remedy ebizwa ngokuthi iNkanyezi yaseBetlehema kuthiwa iyasiza kakhulu ekuqedeni usizi nosizi. Ungathola amakhambi eBach ezitolo eziningi zokudla ezempilo, noma ku-inthanethi.
- Futhi, umuthi we-Saint-John's-Wort uthatha isifo sokucindezeleka ngokwemvelo kodwa kumele uhlulwe ngokuvumelana neseluleko sezilwane. Uma ukucindezeleka akuphakamisi futhi kuqhubeka isikhathi eside, udokotela wakho wezilwane angakwazi ukunikeza izidakamizwa ezicindezelayo.
Nika ikati lakho isipho sesikhathi sokulila. Kulimaza kakhulu - kuwe kanye nesilwane sakho esasinda. Noma kunjalo, amandla okudabuka adumisa inkumbulo yabashiyile, futhi isilinganiso sokujula kothando lwethu. Futhi lokho kuyilungelo lokugubha.